Title: How to Choose the Perfect Wedding Music for Your First Dance & More | The Aster Event Venue in Southern Utah
Your Ultimate Guide to Choosing the Best Wedding Music for your wedding
At The Aster Event Venue, nestled in the heart of Southern Utah, we know how important the right music is to creating unforgettable wedding moments. From your first dance as newlyweds to the emotional father-daughter and mother-son dances, and the high-energy dance party that follows, the music you choose helps set the tone and tells your story.
Here’s how to select the perfect songs for each major moment of your wedding reception.
1. The First Dance: A Reflection of Your Love Story
What to Consider:
Lyrics: Choose a song that mirrors your relationship—something meaningful and personal.
Tempo: A slow to mid-tempo song is ideal for couples who want to keep things sweet and simple on the dance floor.
Dance Style: Think about whether you want a choreographed routine or just a natural, romantic sway.
Popular First Dance Songs:
“Marry Me” - Train
“All of Me” – John Legend
“At Last” – Etta James
“Can’t help falling in Love” – Michael Buble
Tip from The Aster: Practice your first dance in similar shoes to what you'll wear on the big day. And don't worry—our spacious indoor dance area makes any routine shine!
2. Father-Daughter Dance: Sentimental and Heartfelt
What to Consider:
Choose a song that highlights your relationship—fun, emotional, or both.
Let your dad weigh in—this is his moment, too!
Timeless Father-Daughter Songs:
“My Girl” – The Temptations
“I Loved Her First” – Heartland
“What a Wonderful World” - Louis Armstrong
“Unforgettable” - Nat King Cole
The Aster Advantage: With our scenic Southern Utah backdrop, this emotional moment becomes even more magical—perfect for photos and video.
3. Mother-Son Dance: A Touching Tribute
What to Consider:
Keep it classic and sentimental.
Don’t shy away from a little humor or quirk if that fits your vibe.
Mother-Son Dance Favorites:
“Simple Man” – Lynyrd Skynyrd
“Mama’s Song” - Carrie Underwood
“Days Like This” - Van Morrison
“93 Million Miles” – Jason Mraz
Fun Fact: We often see this dance spark just as many happy tears as the first dance—and The Aster’s intimate ambiance helps make it feel deeply personal.
4. The Dance Party: Your Moment to Celebrate!
What to Consider:
Create a mix that caters to all ages and gets people on their feet.
Work with your DJ, live band, or make a playlist on your phone to balance timeless hits with modern tracks.
Don’t forget to include a few must-play favorites and a short “do not play” list!
Dance Floor Must-Haves:
“Can’t Stop the Feeling!” – Justin Timberlake
“Uptown Funk” – Mark Ronson ft. Bruno Mars
“Shut Up and Dance” – WALK THE MOON
“September” – Earth, Wind & Fire
“Cruel Summer” - Taylor Swift
“Cupid Shuffle” - Cupid
“Best Song Ever” - One Direction
“Hand Clap” - Fitz and the Tantrums
Final Thoughts: Music Makes the Moment
When you book your wedding at The Aster Event Venue in Southern Utah, you’re not just choosing a venue—you’re creating memories that will last a lifetime. Let your music choices reflect the love, joy, and energy of your special day. And remember, we’re here to help you every step of the way—from planning the timeline to coordinating with your DJ or band.
Ready to Dance the Night Away at The Aster?
Contact us today to book a tour and learn more about how we can help you host the perfect wedding in Southern Utah!